Because michael feel uncomfortable look at people and normal he will cry at them if they look at him or say hello. I most think this happen because it so over whelming to meet new people and the word i would call it is "to new" because when your saying hello to some one your newly meeting them for the first time that day....
So i had one of michael friends ask me if "michael hate him" when the boy told me that i was a little heart broken that this friendly happy boy think that way about michael...
So i had to nice tell the boy that michael doesnt like the word "hello" but to 4 year old normal kids hello is a normal thing that everyone does, so why doesnt my son say hello to his friends too......
So that my battle with michael right now teaching him that you need to say hello.
we start off simple just getting michael to say hello to me and make it a fun game and then i got him to move to, saying hello to other people he know...like nan,pop,teacher,friends etc.......
Michael was having fun doing this at the start and when i took him shopping he started to say hello to random thing like "hello shops".
But people that going to be a long battle before Michael will feel comfortable saying hello to a real person other than mum...

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